Men/women did not partake together
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--Genesis--

And he took butter, and milk, and the calf which he had dressed, and set [it] before them; and he stood by them under the tree, and they did eat. (18:8)

And they said unto him, Where [is] Sarah thy wife? And he said, Behold, in the tent. (18:9)

--Esther--

In the third year of his reign, he made a feast unto all his princes and his servants; the power of Persia and Media, the nobles and princes of the provinces, [being] before him: (1:3)

Also Vashti the queen made a feast for the women [in] the royal house which [belonged] to king Ahasuerus. (1:9)

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